The definition of recreation- Done for enjoyment. There are so many reasons why this is foolery! Here are some--- Sex forms spiritual bond between two people. It is a covenant to only be broken by death. Designed as a means of reproduction of the Human Race. The expression of love as a gift between two people before God. Created and honored by God when done within the boundaries of His law. Pleasurable? absolutely! to be used in a selfless exchange/ expression of love between a man and a woman. The choice to use something created for a different purpose is what we are calling "recreational" (i.e drugs) Abuse- The improper use of something. Is a more accurate description of this kind of behavior.